BullyProof: Using Subtle Strength to Influence Alphas and Strengthen Society
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English | May 24th, 2022 | ISBN: 1631957449, 1631959336 | 270 pages | True EPUB | 2.83 MB
BullyProof explains how to win when interacting with alpha personalities.
All bullies are alphas, but not all alphas are bullies. Alphas are people who take charge of situations whether they are the expert or identified leaders. More often than not alphas are perceived as bullies and it’s not always intentional. The challenge is that when interacting with alphas the reaction is often emotional and results in two actions: 1) punch back harder (fight) or 2) avoid and run (flight). This results in a cycle of dysfunction and losing. People are programmed to hate people who push them around and that hate cloud strategy. The best approach is to find a “fit” which will give someone a better chance of getting what they want. Amazingly it also breaks the cycle of dysfunction, fighting, and avoidance and allows alphas to see the value in partnering and not winning at all costs.